Bernard Petrella
February 7 1923 - February 28 2004
Visitation :
John Quint Treboni Funeral Home
Tuesday March 2nd 2004 2:00-8:00 PM
1177 W. 5th Avenue
Columbus Ohio 43212
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Obituary
Bernard "Barney" Francis Petrella, age 81 passed away on Saturday February 28th 2004 surrounded by his family. Born February 7, 1923 to Berardino & Anna(both deceased). A graduate of St.Thomas Aquinas High School(Class of 1941) and Franklin University. He proudly served in the U.S. Navy during WWll. He retired from Columbia Gas after 40+ years of dedicated service. A member of St. Christopher Church, St. Anthony of Padua Club and life long member of the Flytown Club. He is preceded in death by his loving wife of 29 years Gaynelle, son Bernie Michael, brother Adam, sisters: Phyllis, Connie, Mary, Rocky, Eva, brothers-in-law Hubert Savoia, Fred Nance and life long friend Tommy Nutini Survived by children Ron(Kathy), Anna Marie(Randy)Crawford, Gregory(Debbie), Vince(Patti), Victoria(Gordie)Gatien and Philip(Leslie), 11 grandchildren, 4 great grandchildren, brother Tony(Tiny), sisters Lou Nance, Marg Savoia and numerous nieces, nephews, in-laws, cousins and friends. Family will receive friends on Tuesday March 2nd 2004 at the John Quint & Sons Funeral Home 1177 West Fifth Avenue Columbus Ohio 43212 from 2:00-8:00 PM and with a prayer service at 7:30 PM. Funeral Mass will be held 10:00 AM on Wednesday March 3rd 2004 at the St. Christopher Catholic Church 1420 Grandview Avenue Columbus Ohio 43212 Rev. Fr. Arthur W. Wiles Celebrant. Burial will follow at the St. Joseph Cemetery 6440 S. High Street Lockbourne Ohio. In lieu of flowers, friends who wish may contribute in Bernard's memory to the Mount Carmel Hospice, 799 W. State Street Columbus Ohio 43201. The Petrella family would like to extend a sincere thanks and appreciation to Dr. Chidiac and staff for their loving care of dad. Condolences may be sent to www.johnquint.com.
Contributions
Contributions may be directed to any of the followingCondolences for Bernard Petrella
From : Robert Gossman (nephew)
To : Bernie's Family
Date: March 1st 2004
We wish to extend our sympathy for the loss of Uncle Bernie. He is now at rest with his sister, Mary (my mother) and we know they are both at peace.
Our thoughts are with you in this time of loss and we hope to pay our respects on Wednesday morning at the Mass.
Fondly,
Robert and Pamela
From : Kim (Orendorff) Fiebig
To : The Petrella Family
Date: March 1st 2004
To Vickie and all of Barney's loved ones, please know that my heart and thoughts are with you in this sad time. The memories I have of Barney are from many, many years ago, but they are still thought of fondly.
May he live forever in your hearts and in the eyes of your children, and may the warmth of his love be with all of you, always.
Love from Kim (Orendorff) Fiebig and Aaron Entsminger
From : Linda Orendorff
To : Family and loved ones of Barney Petrella
Date: March 1st 2004
I know you all have so many wonderful memories of Barney, (they will be even more precious now). I'm so thankful that I met Barney through my son, Mark, and got to know of his kind heart and fun-loving nature. (Mark really thought the world of Barney and loved him like a dad.) Barney's"life journey",(like all of us),was a "roller-coaster" of happiness and sadness; and he had the greatest possession of all - a loving family to support him. I know that you will miss him so very much, but know that he is at peace. My love, thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love, Linda
From : Susan Nagel
To : Victoria Gatien
Date: March 1st 2004
From : Susan Nagel-Bloch & Raymond Bloch
To : Victoria Petrella Gatien
Date: March 1st 2004
Dear Victoria and Family,
Mere words are so inadequate at a difficult time like this. Please accept our deep condolences on your sad loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
From : Leo Landes
To : All the Pettrela Family
Date: March 1st 2004
This message of sincere sympathy comes from an old Flytown and Aquinas Guy and friend of the family. May Barney`s soul rest in peace.
From : Brenda Johnson Kenny
To : The Petrella Family
Date: March 1st 2004
A gloomy day...So sorry to hear about Barney! I always thought you were lucky to have such a great Dad. But now, he can hang out with your Mom and spy on everyone. Now that's something to look forward to!
God Bless You & Take Care
Love, Brenda
From : Jon and Lisa Barrett and Family
To : Uncle Barney's Family
Date: March 2nd 2004
Just wanted to let you all know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sorry we are unable to attend the services. I remember clearly how extremely difficult it was when my Dad passed away and there will be some rough times for you in the weeks to come. It does help to know that he's up in Heaven now with many of his family and friends, and he is feeling great again. I always feel that my Dad is watching over me (especially when I need him most). Take comfort in the fact that time really will help the hurt lessen.
Love to all,
Lisa
From : Sylvia & Donald Dupre
To : Lou Nance
Date: March 2nd 2004
We send you and your family our deepest sympathy and love. Your dear brother Barney was a very special person. You are in our prayers.
From : Kathie Morris Connors
To : Petrella Family
Date: March 2nd 2004
Every memory I have of your father is a pleasant one. Which shows what a wonderful man he was. I could not be there in person, but know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Kathie
From : Alumni Office, Franklin University
To : The family of Bernard Petrella
Date: March 2nd 2004
Our deepest sympathy is extended to you on your loss. Franklin University's Alumni Office
From : Lou and Anna Quint Treboni
To : The Petrella Family
Date: March 2nd 2004
Lou and I were saddened to hear of the death of your father Barney. We have know the Petrella family for many years, and have many fond memories. Be assured that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
From : Leanne Puglielli
To : Victoria Gatien
Date: March 2nd 2004
I just received an email from both Cindy and Raquel telling me about your father's death. Please accept my deepest sympathy. If children reflect their parents, then I know that your dad had to be a magnificant human being because I know you.
I need to apologize for sending this condolence in such an impersonal manner... but I am in Ames, Iowa at the moment. I am out here to bury my mother this Saturday. She was about the same age as your dad - 82. I am going to miss her, she was my best friend.
Let's reconnect when I get back in town next Tuesday -- drink a toast to our wonderful parents.
Leanne
From : Kathi Johnson-Matronia and sons
To : The Bernard F. Petrella Family
Date: March 3rd 2004
Our deepest condolences to your family; for even though it's been years you feel close like family in our hearts.Your family has touch ours deeply for the loving bond you share weaves such a beautiful tapestry that we hope only peace and happiness for all of you. Bless your parents that they now share a united umbrella of love for all of you. God Bless...Kathi,Vinnie and Dakota
From : Marcia Nation
To : Victoria Gatien and family
Date: March 3rd 2004
I was saddened to hear of your father's death. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
All the best,
Marcia
From : Bonnie Briggs
To : Anna Marie, Greg, Vince, Vicki & Phillip
Date: March 3rd 2004
I was there last night. You kids had so many people around you, so I sat on the couch in back and waited. As I waited, more people were arriving. I thought someone from the gas company would come in and we could all talk to you. Your dad was great to me and I appreciate all the flowers you purchased from the shop over the years. If there is anything I can do, please call.
Bonnie, 614-457-9980
From : Chrissy & Yaniv Jacobson (Sandy Malfe's Daughter)
To : The Petrella Family
Date: March 3rd 2004
So sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Chrissy & Yaniv Jacobson
From : THE MALFE FAMILY~
To : THE PETRELLA FAMILY
Date: March 3rd 2004
YOUR SORROW IS SHARED BY EVERYONE WHO KNEW AND LOVED BARNEY.WE FEEL FOR YOU IN YOUR SORROW AND EXTEND OUR DEEPESY SYMPATHY.
LOVE & GOD BLESS,
RAYMA,JAMES,SANDY,BILLY,TOMMY,
RAEMALI,& JOHN~
From : M.L.Hurt
To : Bernard Petrella
Date: March 3rd 2004
Dear family of Bernard Petrella
I was very sorry to read about the loss of your father. I have loss my father and mother so I well know the pain you are having. I found comfort and encouragment at the time I lost my parents.I wanted to share with you what it was. I found it in the pages of the bible .As we all know the bible is the source of truth and it holds out a wonderful hope for all those in the grave. At John 11:25 Jesus said "I AM THE RESURRRECTION AND THE LIFE HE THAT EXERCIES FAITH IN ME EVEN THOUGH HE DIES WILL COME TO LIFE". Millions today do not believe in a resurrection, but does their unbelief in a resurrection make it easier for them to face the positive hope of living again and seeing dead loved ones return to life? For the person who believes that God exists belief in a resurrection is not difficult. It is reasonable for us to conclude that the one who originally started out human life is wise enough and powerful enough to restore the dead to life recreating dead humans. This one JEHOVAH GOD has promised such a resurrection and given reassurance that such is possible by resurrecting his only begotten son JESUS CHRIST.
I hope these few words have given you something to think about ant lightened your grief strenghtened your faith inour heavely father,JEHOVAH GOD(Psalms 83:18) For more information regarding the resurrection please contact your local Kingdom Hall Of Jehovah Witnesses or speak to the next one who comes to your door.
Sincerly
M.L.Hurt
From : Mary (Shoults) Gamble and Family
To : Petrella Family
Date: March 3rd 2004
I was unaware of your father passing away until late Tuesday evening. The least I could do was attend his mass.
I'll always remember his pleasant smile. I can see your mother smiling with open arms. Now they will enjoy peace united.
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
From : john Malfe
To : Petrella family and my Godfather- Berrie
Date: March 3rd 2004
I feel as if I lost a father, although I was not able to see him as much as I would have liked, I really feel like he was a person who would not let anyone down. He had such a way of making you feel loved! I will miss him very much! my heart and thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this time of mourning.Your family is very strong and faithful! love in christ, Hello aunt Lou!!! love ya!
John Malfe
From : Sandy Malfe
To : Aunt Lou and Family
Date: March 4th 2004
He is in our hearts and now watching over us all, May his soul rejoyce in the Love that he has with in for every one that he has shared his life with. We love you Barney. Enjoy your new life.
From : Ed Scharringhausen
To : Greg & Family
Date: March 4th 2004
I am lighting a Candle at All Saints Catholic Church in Dallas in his memory. I pray for you and your families as well at this time.
From : Don Gaitten, Jr.
To : The Petrella Family
Date: March 9th 2004
My most sincere condolences on the passing of Barney. My mother and father were old family friends of Barney and Gay. Prior to our moving to Florida in 1962, I can remember having played at your house as a youngster (circa 1959 or so). I did not have the opportunity to connect with your family until many years later, when Barney was present at the memorial Mass held for my father in June 1997, shortly after his passing. Barney came up to me and re-introduced himself, and offered his condolences. I wished to do the same for your family last week, but I was out of town during all of the services. I am sorry that I did not have the opportunity to deliver this message in person. Please accept my sympathy to all members of the family on the passing of a warm and kind individual, who because he remembered who we were and valued his relationship with my parents, will always be remembered by me.
Donald J. Gaitten, Jr.
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To : family
Date: March 9th 2004
From : Aggie Long-Aunt Marys daughter
To : family
Date: March 9th 2004
I wanted you all to know I too have a story about Uncle Barney...My mom raised us alone which is a miracle in itself....anytime my mom needed help with repairing things at our house she would call Uncle Barney....I remember when we still had an old coal furnace...we had a coal room and we would help my mom put coal in the furnace...well it finally broke down and she called Uncle Barney and he got a hold of a furnace from work that was being phased out...he got that furnace and put it in our house over on Fernwood and never charged my mom a cent..I do not know what she would have done without her good samaritan brother...and you all know how busy he was trying to raise you all on his own...life takes it strange turns and we all just do the very best we can with our lives.....and I am so privledged to have know Uncle Barney and Aunt Gay....and of course all of you..we were blessed to have had him for 81 wonderful years....and proud to say he was blood to us.....as well as you all...I pray you will get through this adjustment time and grow stronger together and ejoy each other more everyday......God bless you and keep His hand on your lives......
From : Aggie Long-Aunt Marys daughter
To : family
Date: March 9th 2004
I wanted you all to know I too have a story about Uncle Barney...My mom raised us alone which is a miracle in itself....anytime my mom needed help with repairing things at our house she would call Uncle Barney....I remember when we still had an old coal furnace...we had a coal room and we would help my mom put coal in the furnace...well it finally broke down and she called Uncle Barney and he got a hold of a furnace from work that was being phased out...he got that furnace and put it in our house over on Fernwood and never charged my mom a cent..I do not know what she would have done without her good samaritan brother...and you all know how busy he was trying to raise you all on his own...life takes it strange turns and we all just do the very best we can with our lives.....and I am so privledged to have know Uncle Barney and Aunt Gay....and of course all of you..we were blessed to have had him for 81 wonderful years....and proud to say he was blood to us.....as well as you all...I pray you will get through this adjustment time and grow stronger together and enjoy each other more everyday......God bless you and keep His hand on your lives......